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A new day, Today

November 24, 2019 by Paul Williams 5 Comments

Thank you Father for this time to mourn, regroup and refocus on you. Thank you for your word, the renewing of the mind and body. Thank you all for your prayers and being part of this journey.

It has been 6 weeks since Theresa went home. Initially the mourning and loss was intense, and evenings and weekends lonely and difficult. Each week was less intense, and then it got harder the past couple of weeks. Interesting after 45 days of mourning the loss, God took the darkness, sadness, and replaced it with peace, joy and a refocus on living life today.

I believe the prayers, the living word of God, the books by Sittser, the cards, words of encouragement, love expressed, and my dependence on Christ have all worked together to heal the pain and persevere on the journey set before my kids and me. Thank you for how you all play a roll in that. God is doing the work, not me. I am so thankful for His kindness, grace, and love expressed to us.

I realize Theresa is where she was meant to be. Her priorities and dreams are different than they were here. What was important here, isn’t at all important there. She now lives outside of time and knows the whole story, understands and is content, at peace, full of Joy. What an awesome thought. I am so happy for her and some day I will join her in that joy.

I also realized is mourning is self serving and self focused. It becomes all about me and what I lost, my dreams dashed, my expectations of what my life will be. Mourning is important, but there comes a time to start looking outside yourself again, look at the beautiful life we have been given and begin living it again. Those in Christ are already living in eternity, our story redeemed, our story part of the His story.

The kids are doing alright. Matthew is home and gaining in strength and focus. The older two will be home for Thanksgiving and our daughter is doing well. God has answered both our prayers and been our help through all of this.

Philip Yancey writes in Grace notes: “…My friend Douglas has lived a Job-like existence in many ways, experiencing the failure of a ministry, his wife’s death from cancer, and his own and a child’s injuries by a drunk driver. Yet Douglas advises, “Don’t confuse God with life.”

“When doubts arise, I often turn to that great chapter by Paul, Romans 8, “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?” asks Paul. “Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?” In that one sentence, the apostle Paul summaries his ministry autobiography. He endured all those trials for the sake of the gospel, and yet somehow he had the faith to believe that these “things” – surely not good in themselves – could nevertheless be used by God to accomplish good.”

“The apostle Paul had learned to see past the hardships of life to a loving God who will one day prevail.”

Thank you for your continued prayers and friendships. May you have a blessed Thanksgiving with your families. There is much to be thankful for.

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  1. Toni Belveal says

    November 24, 2019 at 8:12 pm

    Thank you again for reminding us of God’s amazing grace and healing. Prayers continue for you and your family.

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  2. Nannette Hoile says

    November 26, 2019 at 12:22 pm

    Dr Paul – You continue to amaze me, as you have amazed me through this journey! I know it is because of our Heavenly Father, but if you were not a willing vessel, yielded to Him, He could not work in your life as He does. Thank you for your transparency and allowing so many, especially me, to be part of your life in this special way and to be encouraged by your words. You and your family continue in my prayers. May you and yours be abundantly blessed.

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  3. Debbie OConnor says

    November 28, 2019 at 6:08 am

    I’m so thankful for the blessing of knowing and loving Theresa, and the blessing of learning from your writing. I know we only see a tiny glimpse of God’s big picture from here, but I know you have been a reflection of God’s patient love to many.

    I’m praying for your family. I’m so glad to read that you are doing well.

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  4. Candace Horch says

    November 30, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    Your insights from reading scripture and wise authors who have been there themselves, gives me strength and hope that when I have trials in this life, I can trust His provision to get me through… continuing to pray for you and your children as you live your new normal in this life without your beloved to walk with you…

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  5. Nancy Duffy says

    December 6, 2019 at 8:18 am

    We are meant to reach others so they may have the same reassurance we have of a loving God who is constantly by our side in the good times and the bad times.

    You, Paul, have an incredible insight of the scriptures and God’s plan for our lives. You have truly been blessed and because of that you have shown many others how to trust and walk with God.

    Dan and I continue to remember you and your family in our prayers and thank God for your encouraging words.

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About Doctor Paul

Dr. Paul Williams, MD is a small-town family practice doctor working in Centralia, Washington. He works from the same office where his primary care practice was established by his father over 38 years ago. He believes strongly that the art of the old-fashioned primary care doctor is an important feature of our medical system that should be preserved and protected from excess interference from insurance companies and government regulation alike.

Due to changes in the health care industry and regulations affecting it, and in an effort to preserve the art of old-fashioned primary care, Dr. Paul has shifted his practice to a Direct Care model, meaning that patients pay an affordable monthly fee to purchase primary care health care services directly, rather than having their services billed through an insurance company.

This blog is intended to help Dr. Paul's patients (and anyone else!) understand the changes the medical industry is going through, and to provide information about the Direct Care model of primary care.

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